I have learned something very valuable from a young man I am talking to about Jesus. He has a certain sin that he continues to commit over and over and over. After we talk and he asks God for forgiveness, he seems to feel much better and stronger. But within a day or two, he "relapses" and commits the same sin over again. This has been going on for the entire summer. It seems like every time I check my Email, I am going to have one from him saying, "I did it again. What should I do now?" I am not a counselor and have suggested that he may want to seek a professional. But he insists on continuing to ask me for help. What should I tell him? All I know to do is to keep encouraging him to pray and ask God to forgive him and to give him strength to continue his personal battle. To be honest, I am getting a little tired of trying to help him because it just doesn't seem to be working. Then it hit me!
God might be using me to help my friend, but I now realize that he is definitely using my friend to help me. You see, I also have an habitual sin; perhaps we all do. What should we do about it? The same thing I suggested that he do about it: don't ever give-up asking for God's help. When we continue to pray for help, we demonstrate that we still have faith in God to actually help us. But if we give-up and stop asking God for help, what does that say about our faith? There is no guarantee that our family, best friend, or even pastor will never give-up on us when we continue to commit the same sin over and over. They may get tired of trying to help us, but God won't! God loves us so much that no matter how many times we sin, even if it is the same sin, He will never give-up on us. We should always trust in the Lord. And what better advice is there to give to others?
Romans 8:38-39 says, "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Father, thank-you for reminding me that you are still in charge and for never giving up on us. Teach us to also never give-up on others. In Jesus name, Amen.